My friend, Pastor Ray Mirly, is both teacher and preacher. Now he serves as District President. He is ready to encourage in each issue of his "Pastor to Pastor." His encouragement is biblically based; his church worker experience is a rich resource deserving of a wider circulation to encourage church workers across our beloved LCMS. To that end, we offer his messages to you for your encouragement as you serve the Lord and His Church. (just scroll down)
PEACE!
L. Dean Hempelmann, S.T.M., Ph.D., D.D.
Director, What a Way
"Do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” Ephesians 6:4(ESV)
Encouragement - Church Workers are Parents, Too
Leave home early and return late at night! How many times do you find yourself doing this? Do your children (grandchildren) consider you a guest in their home rather than a father or mother (grandfather or grandmother?) On a daily basis, how much do you interact with your children/family? Eat with them? Play with them? Have devotions with them? Watch one of their favorite DVD’s with them?
Absent or distance parenting is fairly prevalent in the United States today! Parents leave home before the kids are up! They call from their cell phones to make sure they are up, have eaten breakfast and are ready to leave for school on time. As church workers, at least many of us can schedule our day so we are home until the children have left for school or are safely dropped off at day care.
Paul, in Ephesians 6:4 is concerned, however, with something more profound and significant than just spending some time with our children, isn’t he? Spending time with them is important and we should. “Bringing them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord” is a far more important and urgent matter. Engaging ourselves actively in our children’s lives is included in Paul’s exhortation. Modeling the Christian life, providing a Christian/spiritual home, having family devotions, engaging in spiritual talks and daily praying with our children is the blessing that God desires us to be to our children as Christian fathers or mothers.
God bless your parenting and grand-parenting!
